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Have you Read? Boy Banned

At the moment I am writing a short birthday story for Amber Kell's birthday bash. When I asked Rachel what book she wanted me to write from she immediately said Boy Banned was one of her favorites.

So I did some re-reading, and loved it as much as a read through as I did writing it.

But, then I came to the part after THE END, my note to readers, and realised that if you haven't read Boy Banned then you may never have seen these words.

So, being in an introspective mood today I thought I would copy them here...

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For those of you who follow my Facebook, or my blog, you will know that my son has autism. He is a funny, sweet, angry, confused, perfect, child, and he influences our lives in so many varied ways.

One of the many questions I often get asked, besides the one about writing a sequel to The Christmas Throwaway (one day), is when was I going to write an ASD character.

I have always said I wouldn’t. Because it’s too hard to write a future with love and hope, when I worry so much about Matthew. There, I said it, I admitted it.

But, Matthew isn’t like Corey, he isn’t interested in forming friendships or relationships at the moment, his autism is, for want of a better word, worse, or maybe, just different. He may not have a significant other, but equally he doesn’t have the anxieties that Corey has with social conformity. He just gets on with life in his own way.

Autism is all about swings and roundabouts I think. Some good, some bad, but always perfect in its own way.

But I digress.

When Meredith Russell showed me this premade cover she was looking to put on her website to sell, I had to have it. The cover is beautiful, and I had a story all ready to go. Corey was edgy and Angel was sweet, and their relationship was one of enemies to friends. That is exactly how I was going to write it.

Until.

I started writing it.

And suddenly Corey became more, he was different, struggling in a world others take for granted, and Angel wasn’t his enemy, but his peace. And I knew why. Corey was on the autistic spectrum, knew himself as Asperger and was comfortable with that label.

I couldn’t argue with him. Or Angel, who loved him so hard.

And so, if you take anything from this story of Angel and Corey, I hope you take hope, and trust that there is someone out there for all of us, whatever our view on the world.

Like, maybe there will be one day for my Matthew.

Love and hugs to you all.

RJ, 18 May, 2016, England



✨🎤 Boy Banned 🎤✨

When the only way to win is to hide who you are, how far are you prepared to go?

Reuben “Angel” Jacobs is one step away from giving it all up. Losing a place in the live finals of Sing UK almost kills him. He has no choice but to go home and work for the family business, even though it means giving up his dreams and proving his old bullies right.


Corey Dixon is a rocker at heart. Being on the spectrum means that making sense of other people’s ‘normal’ is hard in itself, let alone in the chaos of a high-powered competition. Singing is his safe space, the only way he can think through the noise in his head. Messing up his audition for the live shows means his journey is over, and it’s the worst day of his life.

The judges throw them a lifeline and create a boy band from the near-miss hopefuls. Angel, Corey, and three others are put together in a room and offered the chance to sing as a group. Agreeing to become part of the new band means Corey has to hide who he is and what Angel has come to mean to him.

Is winning worth the price Corey and Angel have to pay?

Autism Awareness Month Signups

April 2nd is Autism Awareness Day. I like to use the month of April to highlight various facts about autism as a way of spreading awareness.

What I'd like for you to do is post something on your  - a link to a new book, a blog post, ... ANYTHING... but at the top of the post will be a small autism awareness banner and a *fact* about autism. Also a link to a master post that will then link on to everyone else's posts.

If you would like you could offer a small prize to engage people with your page and this is the ideal time to pimp something of yours.

All contributors gratefully received!



The Five Senses Blog Tour Master Post




Most of you know that I hold an annual blog hop highlighting World Autism Awareness Day on April 2nd. Every year we discuss different issues and this year the blog hop focuses on how people on the autism spectrum can quite differently to taste, touch, hearing, sight and smell. Each author taking part will have a fact based around the senses.

We've had a wonderful line-up of authors taking part in the blog hop. Don't forget to hop through and take part in the final gasp of the giveaways.


1st 2nd 3rd 4th 5th 6th
RJ Scott Marie Sexton
Alex Jane
LiamLivings
Diverse Reader
Nic Starr Amber Kell H.K.Carlton
7th 8th 9th 10th 11th 12th
NR Walker Catherine Lievens Lillian Francis Lexi Ander Jambrea Jo Jones AKMMiles
13th 14th 15th 16th 17th 18th
JLMerrow BeanySparks KellyClemmons Nancy Adams
19th 20th 21st 22nd 23rd 24th
Eli Easton Garrett Leigh Devon Rhodes CarterQuinn Joanna Chambers Charlie Cochet
25th 26th 27th 28th 29th 30th
Clare London Jay Northcote CharlieCochrane Amy Lane


Signed paperbacks fundraising for Autism Awareness


For Autism Awareness month I have joined in with the TTC Books autism auction...

This year I am offering signed copies of The Heart of Texas, Crooked Tree Ranch, and Bodyguards Inc Volume 1

How it works


There is an album on the blog facebook page, TTC Books and more. Each item up for bid will have it's own image and a detailed description of the item(s) you are bidding on.

The auction will run from 12:01AM on April 1st - 12:01AM on April 30th. The highest bid at 12:01AM on April 30th will win that item.

{Follow this link to the Facebook album where you can place your bids}

Autism Auction 2016 Donating list


RJ Scott

1. Signed copy of The Heart Of Texas
2. Signed Copy of Bodyguards Inc Volume 1
3. Crooked Tree Ranch (Montana book 1)




Other authors/promoters/Audio




TM Smith
Signed paperback copies of the All Cocks series
(Gay for Pay, Fame and Fortune, How to Deal, Dare to Hope)
w/Bonus $10 Amazon giftcard from Author Andrew Jericho
(International)

Kindle Alexander
Signed paperback copies of the Nice Guys series
(Double Full, Full Disclosure, Full Domain)
(International)

AE Via
Signed paperback copies of the Nothing Special series
(Nothing Special, Embracing His Syn, Here Comes Trouble, Don't Judge w/bonus swag)
(US Only)

Dreamspinner Press
2- $25 giftcards for Dreamspinner Press, DSP Publications or Harmony Ink
(delivered electronically)

Susan MacNicol
Signed paperback copy of Worth Keeping w/a $20 Amazon giftcard
(International)

Rie Warren
Signed paperback copies of The Carolina Bad Boys series
(Stone, Love, Steele, and Chrome plus a $25 Amazon giftcard)
(US Only)

Ann Lister
A complete Rock Gods signed paperback set, all 7 books
A Rock Gods T-shirt XL
A Rock Gods coffee mug, 14 ounce
(US Only)

Sara York
A complete Colorado Heart signed paperback set, all 6 books
(International)

Morticia Knight
A complete Kiss of Leather signed paperback set, all 4 books
*NOTE* Book four doesn't release until June, you will get this book as soon as the
Author receives the print copies to ship*
(International)

Cate Ashwood
A Forced Silence signed paperback
(US/Canada only)

Jay Aheer
Authors only
1)1 E-book only cover with up to 4 changes
2)1 Facebook Banner with up to 4 changes
Everyone can bid
1)Exclusive/Unique image postcards
(6 postcards per set, digitally painted images)
*FOUR sets available*
^2 winners will bid ^ 2 winners will be chosen randomly^
2)18x18 Canvas Print | Fallen Valentine

Rick R Reed
Signed paperback copy of The Couple Next Door
(US Only)

Teodora Kostova
A complete West End series signed paperback set w/bonus copy of Snowed In
and a $10 Amazon giftcard
(US Only)

Leta Blake
1)Training Season signed paperback copies (Training Season and Training Complex)
2)The River Lieth
3)Smokey Mountain Dreams
(US Only)

Sandrine Gasq-Dion
Signed paperback copies the Rock series
(Fret, Jinxed, Harley's Achiles)
(International)


KC Wells
Signed paperback copy of First
(International)

Andrew Grey
Singed paperback copy of 1 book in the Carlisle Cops series
(Winners Choice)
(US Only)

Charlie Cochet
THIRDS swag bag that includes series unique swag and
ONE signed paperback from the series (Winner’s choice)
(International)

Jacob Flores
Signed paperback copy of When Love Takes Over
(US only)

Geoffrey Knight (Wilde City Press)
5 - $10 WCP giftcards
(to be delivered electronically. Note: once a giftcard is entered onto the site for this publisher, the entire amount must be used at that point of sale.
This is why WCP is giving 5- $10 giftcards instead of 1- $50 giftcard)

Jeff Adams
Signed paperback set of the Hat Trick trilogy
(US only)

EC Hibbs
2 separate (2 winners) fairy and fantasy submissions for a recreation from Elphame Arts
and each winner will receive a 25% off giftcard for another submission.
http://elphamearts.weebly.com/fairies-and-magic-portfolio.html
(International)

Rhys Ford
Signed paperback copy of Fishstick Fridays
(International)

Greg Tremblay
for readers: A personalized something recorded for them.
Voicemail, whatever. 5 minutes or less, in character or not.
for authors: Up to 30 minutes of book promo material or a teaser

Sean Crisden
for authors: 5 minutes of book promo/trailer narration
for readers: A personalized recording or voicemail

Marie Sexton
1)Signed paperback copies of the Coda series
(Promises, A to Z, The Letter Z and Paris A to Z (together in one print anthology), Strawberries for Dessert, and Shotgun)
3)Signed paperback copy of Winter Oranges
4)Signed paperback copy of Trailer Trash
(International)

Z. Allora
Signed paperback copies of Finally Fallen (The Dark Angels #3)
Happy Holidays (The Dark Angels #4)
One bear bag from Heidelberg Germany
and one strand of fresh water pearls from Suzhou China with a pearl & sterling clasp.
(US Only)

Enticing Journey Book Promotions
Author’s only
1 Cover Reveal (no reviews)
1 Standard release blitz (no reviews)

LM Somerton
Signed paperback copy of Stroke Rate
(International)

{Follow this link to the Facebook album where you can place your bids}

Autism Month & Competition - Pain, Denial and Matthew's socks

Matthew doesn't feel pain the same way as I do. That much was obvious from when he was tiny. When other toddlers fell over, they cried. A lot of them would look for their mums and then cry. Not only were they hurt, but they needed someone to recognise that hurt. Sometimes they wanted sympathy even if they weren't hurt at all.

Matt would run ahead, fall over, tumble right onto his tummy, or down on his rear and he would just pick himself up and walk off. He didn't need me to validate that he'd hurt himself, by brushing him down and cooing over him, or that is what I imagined. I mean, he was a focused and stubborn boy, who knew his own mind and didn't have time for any of that fancy *mum love*.

Then I did some reading. Well, I didn't choose to do the reading, not really. At first, when you have a child diagnosed with anything (mental illness, disease etc) then I am sure I would find you reading the pamphlets, the books, anything to find a reason WHY your child is not  what they say he/she is.

You only have to look at the five senses to see this.

Matt would give eye contact - albeit briefly, and mostly to family, but... everyone knows that autism means a child doesn't look you in the eye. So he can't be autistic, right?

Matt wasn't over sensitive to texture in his food, or to colour, he didn't demand things not touch on the plate, and he spent quite a few years helping himself to frozen uncooked food to eat (nuggets, fries, fish fingers). So, he wasn't like an autistic child that was utterly focused on one item of food.

Matt didn't react to smells like an autistic child might. The books say that smells can often make an autistic child anxious. Therefore, Matt wasn't autistic.

Matt liked to touch everything. Using a combination of his hands and his mouth he would touch, taste, feel, everything and anything. He was also more than happy to hug his family, and would often fall asleep on me. He didn't have any aversions to touch, so therefore, he couldn't be like the autistic kids who didn't like to be touched, or didn't want to touch others.

Matt has perfect hearing, but he didn't give the impression that hearing things hurt him. Of course he didn't like the hand dryers in public restrooms, but hey, those things are loud. So, he isn't autistic, just easily startled.

So I read, and I read, and more and more I was convincing myself that Matt had just a language difficulty, or just, an aversion to loud noises. He just liked to walk on tiptoes because he enjoyed it. And he didn't talk because he was just a late starter...

All these things run through your head. Took me a few months to get my head around it all, his five senses may well work as typically expected for the most part, but there were big differences. Things became obvious as he grew older. He hated loud noises, couldn't stand the dark, or the light, began to turn his nose up as most food, and wouldn't wear jeans or any hard material. He liked green, everything had to be green, and he had an obsession with vacuum cleaners (which later led to ceiling fans and pylons).

And he didn't seem to feel pain, or at least he has the highest tolerance for pain that I have ever seen.

Last week Matt boiled a kettle, and the teabags were in a container, and he was pulling one out and had a delayed reaction to his finger being in the steam of the kettle. Where most of us would curse and pull our hands away, Matt didn't realise until it was too late, giving himself a nasty steam burn.

Matt's answer, after he did actually ask our advice on what to do next, was to cover over the burn.

With a sock.

He puts his hands into a sock. Because then he can't see the injury, and the pain isn't there.

Try as we might to look at the issue medically, he won't have us going anywhere near him to help. He's currently used ten plasters that he puts on and then an hour later takes them off, and then when he sees it and it upsets him he covers it with a sock. Very much, out of sight, out of mind.

So, my autism fact on this April blog tour is actually a quote from a blog post, which can be found HERE: https://thethirdglance.wordpress.com/2012/10/07/autism-and-pain-tolerance/

"... that my ability to distinguish, sort, and categorize signals from my body is not very good. I often don’t know where a signal is coming from, and figuring out the intensity of that signal doesn’t always happen. I can have a massive response to a sound that hurt me, but I have also walked around on broken toes before, wondering all the time why my foot felt funny, but not registering that anything was seriously wrong. ..."

Thank you for visiting this post, and I hope you have a look at the master post for all the wonderful authors taking part. HUGS, RJ X



a Rafflecopter giveaway

Autism Auction - Bid on signed paperbacks of The Heart Of Texas and Bodyguards Inc Volume 1

I'm taking part in the *sign off for autism* event at TTC Books and More. I am offering two prizes of signed paperbacks and the bidding is already underway.

All the proceeds go to autism charities.

The full auction with loads of different things to bid on is here

Bidding for Bodyguards Inc is here

Bidding for The Heart of Texas is here



World Autism Awareness Day

When it's obvious to everyone, including Matt

Autism fact – One of the three in the triad of impairment at the root of autism is difficulty with social communication - For all people on the spectrum it is the ability to use their communication skills that is impaired.

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My son, who turned sixteen on 1 April, came up to me a couple of weeks back. He wasn’t upset, or angry, or sad, but he clearly had something to say.

Very often he will come and sit on my lap, even at sixteen and five ten, and he will talk what in my head I deem nonsense. It could be that he wants to share the fact the pylons over the A41 are having work down to them, or the bowling alley in town doesn’t have fans now. These things are important to him, and even though I have heard the stories a million times I listen to him each and every time he tells me. After a while a person can actually just listen to the highlights and nod in all the right places.

Recently, well in the last year or so, when I have him on my lap and he's chatting away, I try to insert questions that I want answers to. Simple things he would never think to share with us, such as, what did you have for lunch at school? Or, did the teacher like the homework you did last night. And sometimes I will get an answer that made sense.

He took great delight then, in instigating a conversation about the fact there were olives on the cold choice bar at his school and how he was so happy and he ate them all.

He will do that, talk to us about what he wants to. In others you would call that selfish. He isn’t interested in the fact I had pasta for lunch, or that my newest book is live. He isn’t interested in other people’s lives at all. He doesn’t have the social skill of give and take in conversations.

This is a big thing for autistic children, and adults. The *art* of conversation is not something Matt learns, although he has picked up a few things here and there, like saying thank you when people do something for him (sometimes he says thank you !).

Anyway, the point of this post, apart from emphasizing the issues with communication that are part of Autism, is to tell you what Matt said to me on one of those times he sat on my lap.

“Mum, my brain doesn’t work properly because I have autism.”

As parents we have never told him this. I mean, we’ve said he has autism, but never the brain part. Maybe he heard it somewhere. Maybe it was us talking to someone else about the effect of autism on the brain. Maybe he read it somewhere. All I know is that now, this statement is part of who he is from now on.
When he walks around town talking to himself and taking photos of ceiling fans other people knew that there was something *different* about Matt. But, he was oblivious to it all. He still seems oblivious which I am happy about.

I’m not saying that he's now all self aware and that makes it horrible for him. His world is narrow and he takes little notice of what others are doing still, but there are flashes of insight. Like his comment about the brain, and the autism (which he pronounces as two words - Awe-tizzem), and the time last week he touched my face and asked if I was okay which shows empathy.

I guess as a protective (and selfish) parent I don’t ever want him to fully understand how different he is, I don’t want him to be hurt by that. But I also want him to understand enough so that he's safe in this world. He's fiercely independent and stubborn and tall and strong and sweet and angry and bright and funny. I don’t want autism to be his label, but if that is the only thing that keeps him safe, what choice do we have, and should we be explaining the limit of his boundaries when a neuro-typical child can challenge their boundaries?

Sixteen is a funny old age.

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Blog participants

S A Meade (ebook from backlist)
Elin Gregory (giftcard)
Amber Kell ($25 Amazon giftcard)
Beany Sparks (An eReader with books donated by RJ Scott, Beany Sparks, Jesse Frankel, Ellen Cross and more)
Lexi Anders (Two books from backlist)
H K Carlton (Four ebooks)
Lillian Francis (A copy of Theory Unproven)
Bronwyn Heeley (An e-copy from backlist & a e-copy of Love Without Knowing It)
JL Merrow (An ebook of Caught)
Nancy Adams ($15 giftcard to Amazon.com + an ecopy of one of Nancy's books)
Clare London (Free download of book for anyone who shares thoughts/experiences about autism)
Eloreen Moon ($5 Gift Certificate to All Romance eBooks, Amazon, or B&N (winner's choice)
Jambrea Jo Jones (A copy from backlist)
Diane Adams (A signed paperback copy of Last First Kiss and an ebook of the same title)
Nic Starr ($10 ARe or Amazon gift card)
Evelise Archer (a copy from backlist)
Suki Fleet (a copy of backlist)
Catherine Lievens (2 copies of Ani, book 7 in Whitedell Pride Series)
Alexa Milne (copy of Sporting Chance)
Mia Hoddell (5 ebook copies of Summer Demons)
Sue Brown (Copy of In-Decision before release)
Megan Linden (ebook copy of Running Off the Edge)
Amanda C. Stone (The Adventures of Cole and Perry)
Cate Ashwood
AJ Henderson
Jess Buffett (4 books from backlist)
JC Wallace
Pants Off Reviews
Rainbow Gold Reviews
Kirsty Vizard




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Competition


Win $25 Amazon gift voucher

Autism Awareness Month - signups...

April 2nd is Autism Awareness Day. I like to use the month of April to highlight various facts about autism as a way of spreading awareness.

My idea this year is to have authors/bloggers post something on their own websites - a link to a new book, a blog post, a round up of reviews... ANYTHING... but at the top of the post will be a small autism awareness banner and a *fact* about autism. Also a link to a master post that will then link on to everyone else's posts.

If you would like you could offer a small prize to engage people with your page and this is the ideal time to pimp something of yours. Last year we had over fifty authors taking part.. this year I would love it to be 60!

All contributors gratefully received!

Exams, Pride & Autism

It's an odd time in the Scott household. B passed her A Levels and is taking up her place to study at Cardiff University in September. It's something she's been working very hard towards, and we are so proud of her. Exams and decisions about further education have always formed an important part of who she is, whether she wanted it or not. B was one of those kids who were assessed for everything from virtually day one of starting school back at age 4ish.

That is the expectation.

Matt on the other hand has assessments and as long as they show he is improving, or highlights where we can help him, that is all we use them for. Matt is a bright kid, especially at Maths, and his spelling ability is awesome. He reads like a normal child, he just doesn't very often understand what he reads.

I don't want him to sit exams. I don't want the incredible pressure on him when he doesn't need to be *exam'd*. Seems to me the UK culture is exam, exam, exam and I can't see why an autistic boy needs to learn chemistry to exam level when he'd much rather be cooking, or playing. He has different needs to B. He needs a functional life, learning about money, and safety, and danger. What H20 means is probably not on the to do list for Matt's life.

Every autistic child is different. Every neurotypical child is different.

THEN, something happened today. A letter landed on the doormat, an official looking letter addressed to Matt.

Apparently he sat exams (he didn't tell me, the school didn't exactly tell me). They are entry level tests in Maths and English. He passed both and he was so pleased with himself.

Both he and B passed exams. I didn't say one word about how he shouldn't have to sit exams.

I was just proud. And Matt? All he wanted to know was how much money we would give him as a well done.

Significantly less than it will cost to send B to University... ROFL...


Autusm Blog Hop - Day #15 & RJ's Competition Winner Annoucement

I am running a two week blog hop where fifty authors and bloggers are offering, facts, stories, and great prizes...

Day 15... The final day!

Ellen Cross - Romance on the Wild Side eBook copy of "Paws, Claws, and their Triple-F

EM Lynley $25 GC to Amazon, ARE, B&N or Dreamspinner Press (winner's choice) contest ends April 18 

Winner of RJ Scott competition:

And the winner of the RJ Scott six months of books competition was drawn as number 30 in my randomised list by none other than Matthew himself...

The winner on the Welcome To Holland post is:

BJ Williams, who said:

Wonderful article. My work colleague's little boy is autistic but a gentler happier child I've yet to meet. I will definitely show his mum your blog post on Welcome to Holland I'm sure it will help the family enormously.


Autism Blog Hop - Day #14

I am running a two week blog hop where fifty authors and bloggers are offering, facts, stories, and great prizes...

Day 14...

Cherie Noel

Erica Pike (Gay Romance)  an e-copy of one of my books - winner's choice - closing date contest on April 20th at 11.59 PM. Winner announced on the 21st

S. A. McAuley Any ebook from my back catalogue or an upcoming book

Wake Up Your Wild Side - Gale Stanley 2 ebooks from my backlist (reader's choice)


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Master Post of all bloggers here: April Autism Blog Hop

Autism Blog Hop - Day #13

I am running a two week blog hop where fifty authors and bloggers are offering, facts, stories, and great prizes...

Day 13...

It's too tricky on my own - Carol Westron $10 Amazon gift voucher

Mrs Condit & Friends Read Books a $25 Amazon gift card for comments and the contest will start April 13, end April 27 

S. A. Garcia—Oscar's Bruised Petals first two books in the Cupid Series (ebooks: "Cupid Knows Best" and The Gospel According to Cher).

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Master Post of all bloggers here: April Autism Blog Hop

Autism Blog Hop - Day #12

I am running a two week blog hop where fifty authors and bloggers are offering, facts, stories, and great prizes...

Day 12...

Chris T. Kat $10 Amazon GC and the closing date will be April 15th The UN declared 2 April as World Autism Awareness Day (WAAD) in 2008

Jordan Castillo Price ebook copy of Mnevermind 1 or 2 (winner's choice) The idea of an autism spectrum was first introduced by Lorna Wing and Judith Gould in 1979

T. T. Kove 2 ebook copies from my backlist, winner's choice. Giveaway will go until the 15th April


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Master Post of all bloggers here: April Autism Blog Hop


Autism Blog Hop - Day #11

I am running a two week blog hop where fifty authors and bloggers are offering, facts, stories, and great prizes...

Day 11...

Megan Linden 2 e-book copies of "Running Off the Edge"

Meredith Russell $10 Amazon giftcard as a prize, closes April 15th

Pia Veleno Surprise prize!


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Master Post of all bloggers here: April Autism Blog Hop


Autism Blog Hop - Day #10

Celebrating Autism Awareness Day 2014 

I am running a two week blog hop where fifty authors and bloggers are offering, facts, stories, and great prizes...

Day 10...

JC Wallace Books an ebook copy of Curiosity Killed Shaney

Life and its challenges - Anna Marie May 2 free ebooks from the booklist

Silvia Violet 2 ebooks from my backlist (reader's choice)

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Master Post of all bloggers here: April Autism Blog Hop

Autism Blog Hop Day #9

Celebrating Autism Awareness Day 2014 I am running a two week blog hop where fifty authors and bloggers are offering, facts, stories, and great prizes...

Day 9...

AJ Henderson $10 Amazon gift card

Caitlin Ricci any ebook from my backlist

Jess Buffett winner's choice of backlist ebook and a $10 Amazon GC

Autism Blog Hop Day #8

Celebrating Autism Awareness Day 2014 

I am running a two week blog hop where fifty authors and bloggers are offering, facts, stories, and great prizes...

Day 4...

08 - JambiLand - Jambrea Jo Jones Backlist - Closing date will be April 11th. :)

08 - Our Difference Is Our Strength - Blaine D. Arden an ebook of choice from backlist (not counting the charity anthology Legal Briefs) in format of choice 

08 Eloreen Moon - Moonbeams Over Atlanta $10 GC to ARe, B&N, or Amazon. Closes 11:59 pm 4/15/14 EDT 

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And don't forget, a list of all participants and their prizes are here: April Autism Blog Hop

Autism Blog Hop Day #7

Celebrating Autism Awareness Day 2014 I am running a two week blog hop where fifty authors and bloggers are offering, facts, stories, and great prizes...

Day 7...

Evelise Archer - Sexy Erotic Xciting $10 GC to Amazon (closing date April 15th)

Iyana's Rainbow postcards, Amazon gift card, and my e-books

Stacia Hess - A Teacher's perspective - $10 gift voucher for ARe or Amazon


A Teacher's experience - Autism Blog Hop guest post

People with autism have difficulty recognising and understanding people’s feelings and managing their own feelings

A wonderful post from Stacia...

I am a retired Pre-school and Kindergarten teacher, I taught at a private school for four years. My main reason for writing this is not to tell you about my career, however short it was, but to talk about teaching an autistic child. We’ve had blogs going around about how it is having an autistic child and how parents deal with the schools and teachers of these kids so I thought I’d share with you from an educator’s point of view in the classroom. Each person with Autism is different so I’ll just be talking about the child I know and this does not shed light on all autistic kids as a whole. They’re not numbers, they’re individual people.

We had a little girl who was five join our pre-school one year. The parents didn’t know how to handle her because she didn’t respond to the outside world as her siblings did. She wouldn’t even use words to communicate, the little girl made grunting noises. I remember the day they brought her in, she took one look at the classroom and started climbing her father like a tree. I had him take her into the hallway which had white floors and white walls and she calmed down. She grunted to get down and she walked around exploring and she was fine. We went back into the classroom and she got upset again so we went back into the hallway. That was when we realized she needed a space that was bland and uncluttered. So while the other kids were in the classroom with the other teacher, I taught her every day in the hallway. At the time this was happening, we did not know she was autistic, she was diagnosed a couple of years later.

I started her out with just one educational toy. It was a stuffed bear with colors on it’s belly. The child pushes the color and the bear says what color it is. We played with that bear for two weeks. Each time the bear would say the color, I would repeat it. By the time the second week was up, she was repeating me. I remember she loved stickers so every time she said it correctly or close to it, I would give her a sticker. By the third week I was able to integrate another simple toy. I took the bear away but by the fourth week I introduced the bear back into the equation. She was able to play with both.

She didn’t like toys that made loud sounds so we found a bear like the first one I shared with her that worked with numbers. She didn’t learn these too well, it took her twice as long but she was able to count to 10. Might not sound like progress but she went from grunting to repeating colors and counting to 10 in three months. She was also talking more. I would talk to her every day. Every time I would do something like stand I would say, “up”. She started to mimic me. I was just experimenting on how to get through to her. She is the only autistic child I ever taught and like I said, we didn’t know that at the time. I think I learned just as much as she did. When she sees me now, she still smiles at me. For me getting a smile from her was worth all the head butting I did during that school year.

Being repetitive in your teaching goes a long way to helping a child to understand and learn. That’s how I taught all of my students their ABC’s and 123’s. You just sometimes have to think outside the box and scale it down a bit. However, just because this worked with the child I taught doesn’t mean it would work for all autistic children. Each one is different.

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